I recently stumbled across this interesting and thoughtful list constructed by the Reverend Sydney Smith, in early 1820.
To Lady Georgiana Morpeth
Dear Lady Georgiana,
Nobody has suffered more from low spirits than I have done – so I feel for you.
1st Live as well as you dare.
2nd Go into the shower-bath with a small quantity of water at a temperature low enough to give you a slight sensation of cold, 75° or 80°.
3rd Amusing books.
4th Short views of human life – not further than dinner or tea.
5th Be as busy as you can.
6th See as much as you can of those friends who you respect and like you.
7th And of those acquaintances who amuse you.
8th Make no secret of low spirits to your friends, but talk to them freely – they are always worse for dignified concealment.
9th Attend to the effects tea and coffee produce upon you.
10th Compare your lot with that of other people.
11th Don’t expect too much from human life – a sorry business at the best.
12th Avoid poetry, dramatic representations (except comedy), music, serious novels, melancholy sentimental people, and everything likely to excite feeling or emotion not ending in active benevolence.
13th Do good, and endeavour to please everybody of every degree.
14th Be as much as you can in the open air without fatigue.
15th Make the room where you commonly sit, gay and pleasant.
16th Struggle by little and little against idleness.
17th Don’t be too severe upon yourself, or underrate yourself, but do yourself justice.
18th Keep good blazing fires.
19th Be firm and constant in the exercise of rational religion.
20th Believe me, dear Lady Georgiana.
Very truly yours,
Sydney Smith.
It is, I think, a beautiful list. It says a lot about both the giver and the receiver, and despite being nearly 200 years old, there aren’t many of the suggestions that feel especially dated.
I also like the brevity of it. So I thought I might try something similar, but shorter, on a different theme.
Dear Secret Writer,
Please, do dare. There are stories only you can tell, and we would like to read them. Are you really going to leave all those fascinating ideas buried in a file on your hard-drive?
1st Visit a good play, and dare to dream.
2nd Write long letters to old friends.
3rd Join a writing group
4th Read everything – even cereal boxes, small-ads on the local notice-board and the fly-posters on lamp-posts and hoardings.
5th Sit in cafes, with a notebook and pen, and imagine what you would do next, if you were, indeed, a writer.
6th Read one new poem, every day, slowly.
7th Listen, really carefully, when other people are speaking, for at least a minute at the time.
8th Join a reading group.
9th Practice telling jokes.
10th Practice saying, ‘No, thank you. I’m not available for an hour on those days.’
Both lists are excellent. Thanks!
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Thank, you, Darlene.
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200 years apart but the same emotions, feelings – and solutions. What worked then still works now. It’s all about taking control of your writing life and your life generally. A useful, thought-provoking piece.
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Thank you, Ann. You’ve identified the point that struck me about Reverend Smith’s list.
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🙂 In the Reverend’s list I don’t agree with no 12
I would replace it with – limit your exposure to gossip, which nowadays would be the media.
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I have to agree with you about no 12, Ashen, and I like your replacement.
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I especially liked #11, #12, #17 and #18 from the first list. And yours is relatable and true. Great share!
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Thanks, Jina. I enjoyed putting it together.
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Oh, oh, oh! both of these really moved me, Cath. Thank you so much for sharing.
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Thank you, Chris.
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My first morning read, brought a smile to my face!
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I’m so glad, Basilike. Thank you for telling me.
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You are welcome! I really enjoyed it!
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Thank you for sharing these – they give much to think about and bring some comfort! It is interesting too to see how we would make personal adjustments or think about making our own lists to pass on or just for ourselves.
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Glad you too found value in Reverend Smith’s list, Maria. As you might be able to tell, I’m fascinated by it.
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Brilliant blog, Cath. I loved it. Moving and effecting with lots of sound, manageable, advice. Thanks for the post.
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Thank you, Lynda. That’s high praise. 🙂
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I like his list and I like yours. There’s a lot of good advice and wisdom in both!
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Thank you, Neil.
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These are both wonderful lists. I especially like your #6–read one poem, slowly, every day. It’s easy to rush through poetry and completely oxymoronic.
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Thank you, Jacqui. I admit that number 6 was me, putting my hand up, and thinking of the kind of reader I used to be.
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Some sound advice from Sydney Smith!
With regards to your list to the “Secret Writer,” I would emphasize that joining a writers’ group (#3) and setting aside time for writing (#10) are definite “must do” for the beginning writer.
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I agree, Rosaliene, two highly valuable points.
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I absolutely love your lists. I am saving them because I know I’m going to refer back repeatedly. Thank you.
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Thank you, Jennifer. I’m so glad you’ve found them both useful.
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Two really helpful lists. I think 17 in SS list is particularly applicable to writers and I love 4 on your list. I’ve been reading cereal boxes for ever. 🙂
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I agree about number 17, Sheila, though it can be tricky to apply.
I’m a big fan of cereal boxes, too. At one time I could quote the lists of ingredients to two or three of the big-brand boxes.
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I agree, both beautiful lists. Not only practical but beautiful in their brevity, choices of words and kindliness. I too, shall refer to these again.
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Thank you Sandra, what a lovely compliment. 🙂
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I quite like both of these lists, although I would have trouble managing the “keep blazing fires” one, and possibly a few others …
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Thank you, James. I know, the Reverend Smith’s list does have some solidly period details – I wonder if ‘blazing fires’ could be taken metaphorically?
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I love your list, Cath, and I have to confess I’m surprised by the first! Pleasantly surprised, that is. I esp like the point of “Hey, watch your coffee intake so you don’t get the jitters!” (but said in a much more eloquent way, of course 🙂
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Thanks Jean.
That list was a surprise to me, too. Writing like this brings the past closer, somehow.
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