If there’s one thing I suspect that all bookworms have experienced, it’s the shocked expressions of the uninitiated when they see our bookshelves. Then the question, ‘Why?’ is asked, in one form or another.
It was many years before I understood that most of the people who asked were not going to be convinced by any answer I could give. Sometimes, when I knew someone well, I’d turn the question round, and say, ‘Why don’t you?’ Just to share that sense of defeat.

The word hoarding has drifted back into focus in the UK this week. I’ve never thought of myself in that way, but I was brought up in a household where the well stocked pantries and larders of my parents and grandparents were considered, stores.
Often these were constructed seasonally. It began with things gathered from the garden and the hedgerows, and was supplemented with bought tinned and dried goods. Such activities were traditions, based on anecdotes, or experiences of: rationing, heavy weather, economic uncertainties… times when shopping would not be an option.
I’m reminded of that this week, as friends who are venturing into supermarkets report that shelves are once more being cleared of some stock. Need I mention toilet rolls?
I’m curious about the quantity of goods that count as a hoard. Perhaps there’s a specific number of tins or bottles beyond which we should not go. I can see how the extremes fit this, those pictures of bunkers with industrial shelving, for instance. But for the rest of us, how do we know whether our shelves are sensibly, rather than excessively stocked?

When it comes to books, I can hold my hand up and say I’m a story-hoarder, banking up food-for-the-mind for the future. There’s only one room in this house without bookshelves.
And then there’s my shed. I mean office, of course, and whoever heard of having an office that wasn’t designed around the tools for one’s trade?
Maybe, when we are again able to invite people in, and someone’s eyes widen as they look at my walls of books, they’ll understand them in the light of these times.
Meanwhile, my blogging friend Ann Burnett has drawn my attention to an interesting new way to buy books and donate money to a good cause, an on-line ‘auction of signed books and items donated by celebrated Authors and Illustrators from around the world‘ called ‘Children in Read‘. Proceeds go to the BBC charity, Children in Need. There are, as of Sunday morning 573 interesting lots to chose from, divided into 25 categories.

My book buying, over the last six months, has been based on tracking down specific titles, and my random reading from my TBRs has made a little space. So, it was good to browse a virtual bookshelf, and put on a bid or two. I got that lovely feeling that comes from mitigating having indulged myself by supporting a charity.
‘Am I a hoarder?’
Let me quote Miss Piggy, ‘Who, moi?’

Cath, fear not ~ as long as there is one room in your house with no books (it may be the smallest room – but even so….) you cannot be called a hoarder. So rest easy and enjoy the words π.
{“Children in Read” what a great excuse ~ as if one were needed.}
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Thank you, Mike, it’s always good to have reassurance on matters like these. I’ve been working on the assumption that so long as I haven’t started building stacks on the floor…
I know, Children in Read is such a lovely pun.
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Oh, I totally get that, Cath! Bookshelf stacking is something I’m also guilty of π
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Thank you, Ola. For me, a room without at least one shelf of books is not properly furnished.
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What an exciting topic! I love books and have many a heaving shelf in many rooms of my house. Both βabove and belowβ if viewed through a Jungian lens! And even wrote a dream inspired poem all about them once.
Somewhere around fifty though, perhaps at forty too, I undertook a huge cull for the charity shops and so let many go to new homes β¦ never in the bin I hasten to add! I had outgrown them and needed space for newbies.
Which leads me to the question βhow and why do we outgrow books?β I look forward to reading your replies on this post. Oh, and I donβt know if other poets do this but I sleep with my entire poetry collection in my bedroom.
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Ah Deborah, I remember that poem, and how I loved it.
I’ve tried culling, too. Somehow, reaching milestones seems to prompt me, too. The problem I found was that a few years later I discovered that I wanted to revisit some of them, and had to track down some new copies. I do like your question. I suspect thinking about that would take me more than one blog-post. Can I ‘borrow’ it, for future mulling on?
I’ve also got my most valued books in my bedroom, in my case they’re mostly prose, though there are a couple of poetry books too.
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I try to let go of novels I think I won’t read again, and then miss them. Personal libraries are a huge subject. I wrote once about physical books I loved to bits … π This list could go on and on …
https://courseofmirrors.com/2014/07/11/physical-books-i-loved-to-bits/
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I like the idea of that list, Ashen. I hope mine will continue to be open ended too.
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Yes, do explore the question! Ditto re having to find a couple of books I let go. Thank you for your kind words re poem. I hope the day finds you well.
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Thank you, Deborah. Yes, I’m feeling fine today, thank you. I hope you are too.
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Thank you, Cath, for bringing your readers attention to Children in Read. Itβs a lovely way, as you say, to add to your collection of books as well as supporting a good cause. And where would we have been, over the pandemic, without books? We need them, and we can never have too many!
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Thank you for drawing my attention to it, Ann. I’m usually only aware of such things after the event.
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Love it and why not hoard. My MR does all the time with books. Indeed for years he appeared to run a home for old books.. Many had to be prised from his hand on moving house.
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I’m probably like your MR when it comes to books, and it’s always good to have support from sympathizers.
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Just don’t try to flit them….. The prob was boxes. You cannot get boxes these days.
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I think the consensus seems to be that you can’t have too many books! Love the idea of the auction. I’ve shared on my FB page where I still have a lot of UK friends.
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I counting a consensus composed of fellow bookworms as still valid.
I think the auction is fascinating. There’s such a good range of books to browse.
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You can never be too thin or have too many books!! or something like that.
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I especially like the book bit!
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You own a proper amount of books!
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Thank you, Neil. I’m really enjoying the support I’m getting from this confession.
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As an avid reader and book lover, I know exactly how you feel about your personal library. When we renovated the entire floor of our apartment last December, my sons questioned the number of books I had. It led to a heated exchange. Since I’m always buying new books and have limited shelf space, I do a yearly thinning at the end of each year and donate the books to Goodwill. Love the “Children in Read” project!
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You sound quite disciplined about your library, Rosaliene. I try to thin mine as I go, but I admit I find letting go of books very tricky.
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Hah! I recognise a bibliomane when I see one! I can’t remember if you saw this post (https://wp.me/p2oNj1-4mm) but everything you said here strikes a chord.
Weirdly, estate agents are supposed to discourage ‘ostentatious’ bookshelving in properties for sale as this is said to discourage buyers because it’s ‘intimidating’. Well, we’ve mostly sold houses to buyers who aren’t intimidated, so we like to think the shelves have enhanced the appearance and desirability of the properties!
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I’ve read your definitions. What an excellent post, I had missed it. Yes, your cap fits, I’ll wear it. I’m going to practice saying ‘bibliomane’.
Clearly, ‘Books maketh the house’.
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Bibliomania has its dark side, an example of OCD applied to books — except that many hoarders rarely look at what they’ve collected, or even value them for their intrinsic value. I do look at what I’ve acquired — not every day, but often enough — and I do value each individual book for its own sake, so perhaps bibliomane is not quite the right word for me.
On the other hand I associate bibliophilia with book dealers, and I don’t see myself as a book collector in that sense. Perhaps I’m just … a reader with a lot of books?
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I agree, books as individuals, rather than a mass. I’m taking heart from this discussion, and confirming that the trick is to keep my bookish friends close. π
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Book hoarding is a wonderful pass time.
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Oh yes!
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But…it’s not hoarding if it’s books. It’s living surrounded by your friends.
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Now there’s a true thought. Thank you!
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So with you on this, Cath. I gave the library 111 books last summer and I probably need to cull the shelves again. So hard to give up my babies, but it gets a little ridiculous after awhile. ;0)
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111? That’s impressive. I think my ‘outs’ might have got to 20, certainly no more than 30, and, I was given another small bookcase. Gestures like that just encourage me to keep more.
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I know but I always envision moving day and it itβs not me moving them eventually my kids are going to be stuck with it all. π
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There is that. But I’ve not thought so much of who shifts the books, as what about all my papers? I have a lot of notes and notebooks. If I don’t keep control of those, there’ll be a lot of bonfires.
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πππ
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Interesting post!
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Thank you, Leif.
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Slow getting on to this… but loved it!
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Thank you.
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These days all my books are in Calibre on the computer and in my eReader β currently around 300 unread! But since they’re entirely invisible, it somehow doesn’t seem like I have as many piled up as it would if I were still adding volumes to the bookshelves …
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Now that’s an advantage to using eReaders I hadn’t thought of.
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I am also a story-hoarder like you Cath and this is the best kind of hoarding I feel. π
You commented, “I havenβt started building stacks on the floor⦔ and I couldn’t help laughing.
All the best to BBC Charity.
Thanks!
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Thank you, fellow story-hoarder. May your shelves keep extending to meet your needs, so that you never need to start creating ‘stacks on the floor’ π
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Writers are known to read more than they write. Add me to that group. (Proud book collector)
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Isn’t it great to belong to such a big club?
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Indeed. Though I am downsizing the bulk now.
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Well done. I’ve never managed to do that in any significant way. Good luck.
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You are right. How much quantity defines hoarding.
Interesting read.
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Thank you, Kritka.
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Oh how I miss my library. I was married for 20 years and after divorce moved and moved and moved and finally I’m ‘home’ again. Sadly my collection, which included my college text books (I only ever re-sold a few when ‘financial’ times called for it), almost every Stephen King ever written and a multitude of written wonders, made it to my new home with me. I can feel good about giving them to family, friends and Goodwill. Where I hope they made it into the hands of lovers of knowledge, a good story or ‘oh I’ve been hoping to find this one’ tribe out there. Thank you for this read … I very much enjoyed π And oh … my new collection has begun … my partner seems astounded by the number of books I’ve read and yes, kept … since moving in 9 months ago *(though many have been mailed and shared with my Mother – who simply HAD to read this or that one too). She passed down the love of a good story and I truly LOVE sharing the best ones with her still. My partner seems to be enjoying the growing library in our home together and I’m newly grateful for the space it takes to grow a library of ones own.
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Thank you for dropping in on me. I’m sorry it’s taken me so long to respond. I hope Christmas has brought you some lovely new reading adventures to help rebuild your library.
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CATH! Oh, it has been toooooo long. Happy Christmas, Friend! I FINALLY got my grading completed yesterday morning, so now I’m enjoying time in front of a computer when I want to. We had a quiet family Christmas today, with choir in church, some presents and games (Blondie won, of course), reading and Christmas films. Family is coming to us in spurts, with two groups coming last weekend and two more coming this next weekend. Hopefully I’ll behave myself. π And you? How are you? Praying you had a lovely day, too! xxxxxx
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Happy Christmas to you, too, Jean. Congratulations on completing the grading… on Christmas Eve? It sounds like you’ve had a busy time these last few weeks! I hope you’ve had a lovely time with your visitors, and not found behaving to restrictive. We’ve had a really nice, quiet Christmas, thank you, very restful.πβ¨β¨ xxxxx
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We kept all gatherings quite small, which helped, but FIVE Christmases….oy. Kids loved it, of course. Honestly, what surprises me is that Bo found himself enjoying the actual Christmas Day where we DIDN’T run around and see people, which was the norm. So it sounds like we may make quiet Christmas Days a new tradition for our house. So long as we don’t have to host four flippin’ other Christmases in the future, I’m fine with that, lol.
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I’d have loved 5 Christmases when I was a kid, but like Bo, we really relished having a quiet day, this year. I wonder if some of us might begin revising our festive season activities, after this… But then again, when else do we make a point of catching up with relatives? Hope you have a lovely New Year, too. xxx
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Precisely! And decorating for Christmas usually forces us to clean anyway. π I hope all of us have a splendid New Year, too! xxxx
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